You can die because of a girl. I mean the pretty one, not the ugly, fat, mentally unstable one.
These days people are discussing a boy from Shenzen, China, who he suicide. You can look him up via these articles
- China Gate (Chinese): https://www.wenxuecity.com/news/2024/05/05/125552090.html
- Binance Post (English): https://www.binance.com/en/square/post/7633078114657
- Kenh14 (Vietnamese): https://kenh14.vn/vu-meo-beo-nhay-cau-gay-xon-xao-mang-xa-hoi-chi-gai-nan-nhan-chia-se-chi-tiet-gay-phan-no-20240506162638846.chn
First of all, I think that all men happen to be the same, I see this often in East Asia where men tend to be very impulsive and/or paternalism. Where men want to take control over women, and if they are not able to do so, they start crying like a baby. Yes, not all men are created like that but there are quite a few examples that we can observe in the newspaper of Vietnam where I was living. There are often cases where the guy cannot hold his temper and kill his girlfriend. But for this young 21-year-old who bought Fat Cat, he suicide. He dies too young and that is really a waste of his future ahead. I mean if I were him I wouldn’t do that simply because we have plenty of stuff to do right? Why don’t you just find other chicks and have fun, why do you just fall for this only chick? and I mean, you have to think about your parents too right? They are really the ones who care about you and want to you live happily.
Anyways, I can logically think that we, men, are trying to be nice when our counterparts and because we are in the position of seeking love and pursuing it. Women are just there waiting for us to come, flirting with them and making them pregnant. It’s true for any animal, including us as humans. Have you ever seen any kind of animal where females try to mate with males? Have you?
Because we / the males have to be the ones who sacrifice and be active in finding a mating partner. We sometimes overdo it, like this 21-year-old young boy. He is a great example who sacrifices too much until he happens to understand the reality that it’s truly painful: No matter how much you sacrifice for the one who doesn’t like you, you always get nothing from the investment.
Second, sometimes we forget how things work in this world. If the girl actually cares about you she will be responsive. That’s the same for men too, right? we / males only care about a girl that we are interested in, at least for mating purposes, and not taking care of her or her child. So be frank about this, if she doesn’t care that means she is not worth pursuing. If she does care, then see if she is being honest. And yes, you might want to visit a pretty girl, but to stay with a smart girl. I mean girl with common sense will definitely know how to behave: if she doesn’t like you she will be straightforward if she likes you she will give enough signals for you to move on. I don’t blame Fat Cat on this, because he’s young. We all need to face multiple people sometimes to really understand how many kinds of people are out there, who are good, who are bad, who to embrace, who to avoid.
Third, it’s true that women will enjoy being around the guy who can possibly take care of the girl, physically and mentally. So showing up that you are rich and have more money than others is not cool. Let her find out about yourself steadily first and, in my personal belief, it’s how you treat the girl and make she likes you or not. Because it’s so easy to distinct between a good person and a bad one, I’m talking about the intention. If it’s short-term, not serious intention, many women can find out by their instinct (it’s like how you are caught cheating with your wife), and they are likely to avoid you – unless they want to have some fun out of you, like gifts from wealthy guys, or sex from 6-abs, pretty face men.
Lastly, it’s all about yourself. If you are not doing good, no one will actually give a shit about you. Let’s say you are the only one in this world, no one there around. Are you trying to live? or you are willing to die? If you choose to live, then yes, you’re a normal human being. It’s the god’s favor that giving you this life. Try to live the best out of it. Be a smarter man every day, making yourself stay healthy and happy is your number one goal. Do not rely on anyone else to do it for you, or you will suffer otherwise.