People often say that your wife or husband is fate and it cannot be decided by you. You know what, I believe nothing in fate, but I still apply that term for myself to relieve some of the tension of things that are hard to control, especially relationships. You never know who you will meet, and you never know who you will marry. It’s just a chance that you might meet someone that you feel fits the puzzle of your life then you decide to start a family and raise kids with them. I see and hear plenty of confessions talking about how shitty their relationship is. Mostly women are blaming men for being poor, and weak. But you know what, shitty women that divorcing men have a big voice and they use social media a lot to blame the men. I see that the woman that divorcing is also having a problem with herself alone, she just gives excuses and blames the men. But anyway, speaking about the standards of selecting your favorite partner, it’s all about how much wisdom he has, how he can promise a good future for you and your kids: like how good he can earn a living, how talented he is, how healthy he is, how handsome he is and how tall he is. I mean it’s natural selection, women want to mate with a man that likely to produce good new humans: that’s how nature selects good genes. I mean if I was born with IQ lower than 70, shorter than 150cm (or 4 feet 11 inches for those who live in the United States), and also ugly as f*ck and also lost a limb, then I definitely kill myself (of course if my parents are still alive then I won’t do that). Anyways, it’s all about natural selection. So are men who also choose good genes like good-looking women, smart ones with consciousness and common sense, etc.
As a normal human being with prestige I would prefer the one partner that matches me the most. I mean she shouldn’t be too dumb or ugly, I mean I feel like I am above average so I think my partner somewhat should be above average too. You know, the Adam and Eva story right? Eva is not a sheep, and so is Adam, Adam is not a dwarf. So if I am not a dwarf, indeed I am not a dwarf since I am above 170cm or 5’6″ for those who are living United States, a dwarf is shorter than 4 feet 10 inches, so why the hell do I need to marry to a sheep? Come on, use your common sense girl. Don’t tell me to be too selective to marry a monkey or a sheep. But of course, until 30 if I am still not able to find a partner then I will marry a random sheep anyway because I feel it’s my duty as a human being and a god creation, I must create new humans to continue my works after I die – it’s for human continuous of generations. If my future partner is a sheep then I just need to work harder. That’s all, as long as I still breathing I will try the best I can to make everything possible on this Earth to be better.
Of course smart is not enough, unlike the women counterpart, we do not really care about how tall a person is but rather how pretty she is. I mean if she is good-looking then it’s a natural chemistry reaction in our body to mate with the woman right? It’s a basic instant for men to want to hook up with pretty girls because it’s a good gene. Good good-looking girl is already a ticket for the first part of knowing each other, it’s good enough to start a date. But a smart girl will be good for the long term. Yes, I feel more struggling to find a match of the latter, because often any single pretty girl is most likely to be dumb. I think there is a correlation between appearance and the brain, it’s the inverse proportion. No wonder why it’s often to see our men marry not-so-good-looking women and then seek a pretty girlfriend afterward, so they both have a smart woman (the wife) and a pretty dumb one (the cheat meal).
Why is finding a partner that matches your level is important? it’s just the fairness, if your spouse spent your hard-earned money on clothing, make-up, spa, and traveling with friends and stuff, she must do something right? If she is a gold digger then she belongs to the street. And you, as an honest, working man do not belong to the street, you must marry a woman who cares for and respects your hard-earned money. So my third statement here is that you should not marry a sloth. You don’t want to have an extra burden in your life, right boys? I mean if you’re a sloth too then there is no problem with living with another sloth.
Overall, I do have huge respect and love for all the women and the mothers. They can proliferate, the ability to feed, and raise the kids. All of us love our moms. Therefore it’s your choice to find the right partner. It is not really about your happiness only, but it’s also about your kid’s happiness. It’s your child too, in the end, right?